Being a Joined Trill is a lot more like being genderfluid than trans. For example Jadzia didn’t look back on her time as the male Curzon as “wrong” or dysphoric. She WAS happy as a man and IS happy as a woman.
Ezri was a lot more confused, but only because she hadn’t been prepared for the joining like Curzon or Jadzia had been, and was thus more overwhelmed by all the new and unexpected memories. It didn’t last, and Illa seemed far more comfortable in her own skin.
“What is a vague and carefully unfalsifiable way to slander an entire continent?”, Alex.