No, you don’t have any responsibility per se, but you should know your comments come off more misandrist than feminist, and actively harm the cause. You are the embodiment of the shrieking feminazi strawman that incels joke about - and I’m not convinced you aren’t a larping incel trying to push their conspiracy that feminism = man-hating.
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- TwistedTurtle@sh.itjust.workstoBrand New Sentence@lemmy.today•If she doesn't disclose up front that she's wearing makeup, that's sexual assaultEnglish12·24 hours ago
- TwistedTurtle@sh.itjust.workstoBrand New Sentence@lemmy.today•If she doesn't disclose up front that she's wearing makeup, that's sexual assaultEnglish93·2 days ago
Lol, I’m not disavowing feminism. Your comments won’t change the mind of anyone who already had an egalitarian mindset - but in aggregate lots of comments like yours push away people on the fence, and entrench those who are already in a bad place.
If a woman made an equivalent comment about the before and after shots of a guy getting in shape or something it would rightfully not draw any ire. Jumping down the throat of every guy who expresses their preferences about women is not going to win us any allies.
- TwistedTurtle@sh.itjust.workstoBrand New Sentence@lemmy.today•If she doesn't disclose up front that she's wearing makeup, that's sexual assaultEnglish205·3 days ago
People like you do more harm than good for the cause you’re fighting for. You are a living caricature of what actual incels use to justify their rotten worldview.
A smutty harem game, “Fresh Women”. Please tell me this isn’t just a hypothetical…
Once you’ve seen one pair of tits…
…you really want to see the rest of them.
I genuinely can’t distinguish between satire and reality anymore.
If a woman had made an identical comment about a dude posting with/without makeup photos it wouldn’t have drawn any ire.
It wasn’t objectification. He never insinuated that her looks were all that mattered, or that she wasn’t a unique snowflake of a person - he simply mentioned his own preference about makeup.