• answersplease77@lemmy.world
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    8 days ago

    sadly kinda happened to me :(
    i paid a “model” $15k to travel and see me for few days+tickets+hotel#s+gifts++ all in her bank already. first day I was shocked when she cleaned her face. I kept looking and could not fuckin believe it was the same person had I not seen her wash her face in front of me… the 2nd day I left. and off course i kept it in and never reported it to the police

    Edit: The last sentence in my comment was a joke at OP. lol … the downvotes

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        8 days ago

        no. it was snap-beauty-filter level of makeup. for solid 15 minutes I looked around thinking… she called her friend? that’s another girl? she was a pro, and it was gg.

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          Thanks for confirming you’ve never been within the vicinity of a woman before that.

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        8 days ago

        im late 40s, never married and no kids… not my first rodeo. It was generous and fair from me. the initial offer was to stay a week. plus she travelling from her country and from far city. , and she was also kind. but 3rd day I thanked her and left… no bad feelings.

        I’m not that rich, and I’m someone who yearly spends 10x that amount on charity that take care of many kids without parents. I cannot take this trash called money to my grave. Your comment was about me losing money on escorts. No, the most beautiful money I “lost” was to help people in need and I kinda changed their life to the better.

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          I’m not that rich, and I’m someone who yearly spends 10x that amount on charity

          $150,000 a year for charity but not rich. Does the $ mean Taiwanese dollars or something?

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            You don’t have to be rich to be generous. I’m literally the poorest in my family and all people around me.
            I’ve dealt with billionares all my life. they are the ugliest people on earth. they either hoard money or exploit people with it. what do you want me to do knowing i have no more than 30 yrs at best left here. no one in my family needs it. I dont need more than $200k on myself a year max.

            I dont know how old you are, but I hope you understand.

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                7 days ago

                oh … sex toy? you exploit people? is that how you treat women? or did you want me to give her nothing? and how old do think she is? what is her profession? do you think all escorts or sex workers are bad people? why is this lady in particular agreed to do such arrangment? did I degrade her? how is managing her life? am I in a relationship cheating? is she in relation? does she have kids? do I have kids? does she have a job? why did I give her $15k on top of all travel expenses and treated her well and thanked her and left without asking for a penny back if I only spent 1 night when the arragment was almost for a week? how did I withdraw myself did I insult her face and leave, or what? was she into me at all? who put this consual arrangment in first place? what was your communication beforehand and afterward? does she do this with other men? how much does she charge? what did we do together and did I treat her like a sex toy like you said or even expected such thing? did I force myself on her?

                I want to see you try to guess and answer to every question I put up. You see, you can assume 1 million stupid thing and make your own narrative.

                You will realize how easily wrong you can be. I don’t have to prove to you anything, and you don’t have to assume the worst out of people. Same applies to you btw. Even if you tell me about your life, age, relationships, I cannot assume things to start comparing you to my worst conceptions, or reflecting the worst image into your life to assume who you are. Just stop. Or really answer these questions I put up and give me a good laugh

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                  7 days ago

                  You left as soon as she exhibited agency by washing her makeup off.

                  I support sex workers. I don’t support people who use them as objects.

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                    you did the same mistake again. why not answer my questions for me to know what narrative you came up with? … I dont want to know, but I’m explaining to you why you should not assume the worst image and conception about a narrative you know nothing about. If you tried to guess and answer the questions I asked, they will most likely be wrong. And that’s my point. If you don’t believe me, go ahead and try …