• Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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    2 months ago

    Yeah as a huge linux fan we gotta be honest with ourselves 😅 we’re kinda fuckin insufferable at times

    I think a lot of the technical folks who built the space made interpersonal skills kind of a dump stat- and to be fair, I benefit enormously from the technical ability they have in exchange for that lack of social skill. But it does define the culture of Foss spaces in a bunch of ways that aren’t the greatest 😅

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      2 months ago

      It’s what convinced me to make a switch to Linux, two years ago by now.

      I’ve seen it mentioned for years at that point. Did it feel annoying? A bit, especially when I was trying to solve something. But it was one post that pushed me over the edge. I’ve probably seen a lot posts/replies like that before.

      I can’t say why, I guess the stars aligned, but I’m glad it happened. I probably wouldn’t do it, if it weren’t for years of constant reminders that Linux is in fact an option.

      • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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        2 months ago

        Yeah I think its a balancing act. That’s why with this kind of thing I prefer to just share my excitement with people without expectations that they wanna engage with it the same way I do

        I think you can share what makes linux special and expose people to the idea without it needing to be badgering. Which I’m sure works for some folks who are open to the idea, but it also just fuels kinda tribalistic antagonistism and resentment in many cases

        It took a long time for one of my friends and I to be able to have conversations about linux cause she got so burned out by the prosthelytizing she’d gotten previously that she was defensive, and I got defensive that I couldnt easily talk about the thing I’m excited about. I’m really excited that these days I can just tell her about the shit I think is cool without her feeling like I’m demanding something of her :) yesterday we had a lovely conversation about social media and the fediverse ☺️

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        Yeah, and sometimes the solution really is just “stop using a garbage OS”.

        Like maybe there’s a good reason why it’s such a common thing people suggest here

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      It’s odd to me to be a fan of an OS. It’s the nuts and bolts needed to make a computer do things I actually care about.

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        I’m a fan of it for the way that it treats me with respect and represents the possibility of technology that isnt extractive and abusive. And as a ui nerd there is an element of the computing foundation that is exciting to me in and of itself :) I love seeing the different ui paradigms of different desktop environments and how they solve problems like making multitasking work well for users

        But that just how I relate to it, it’s totally valid for the computer or os to be more of a means to an end for people :)

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        It’s the nuts and bolts needed to make a computer do things I actually care about.

        So you mean like the OS? It’s literally the most important (software) aspect of the whole thing

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            You would care about (or at least pay attention to) the transmission if your car kept breaking down because of it. But unlike a car, on a computer you could relatively easy change out the OS with something else.

            As always, the analogy between cars and computers are not one to one.

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              I would not suddenly take up a deep interest in transmissions, their workings, their manufacturers, which types are mechanically superior, subscribe to a transmission subreddit, argue with strangers about which ones are best, etc…

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                Again, you can’t compare a transmission to an operating system. And not everyone using Linux takes a deep dive into everything in there. But if your Ford kept having transmission issues you might go with a Toyota the next time - that’s what I meant about caring/paying attention