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Cake day: August 20th, 2023

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  • I’m really sorry you had such difficult childhood and bad mother. Kids are the worst and can be so cruel for no reason, it’s awful.

    Also, I’m sorry my questions must have touch very sensitive memories, thank you for being open and I hope it wasn’t too painful. Thank you for broadening my understanding and perspective on the human condition. I hope you were able to deal with your trauma with a professional and that it’s not too much of a burden on you life.

    I’m also sorry for the lack of clarity in my sentences. What I wanted to say is that everyone is unique/weird so really no one is weird. You should be able to like what you want without any guilt as long as it’s not hurting anyone else (except if they want to be hurt of course 😈).

    I really hope you are in a sane relationship with your boyfriend and not just dependent on it. I hope he treats you with respect and genuine love as you absolutely deserve it. You are worth it, no doubt in my mind. I wish you and your boyfriend the best. I wish I could give you a big hug right now 🫂 (here’s a coupon for a free hug from your boyfriend in my place 💝)


  • I totally get how pleasuring your partner feels good.

    About the praise, I see a lot of même or reference to praise kink around here but I don’t fully understand. Hearing “good job” really is pleasurable? Are you so deprived of positive encouragement in your life that someone being polite is a turn on? I’m not trying to insult you or judge your life, sorry if my sentence is weird and a bit blunt, I don’t really know how to express it. If someone were to tell me I’m a good boy, I would feel a bit insulted at worst, thinking they are moking me and being ironic, and neutral at best. What am I missing or not getting? I’m pretty sure that if I call you a good girl for loving to suck cook, it will not trigger anything in you. I’m guessing it has to come from someone you value. If it’s more about you partner communicating what good and pleasurable for them, in my opinion, it should be part of the normal communication around sex. But then, we get back to pleasuring your partner, and it’s a form of feedback on your actions. And yeah, it’s hot. But I don’t think this is the same as a praise kink. Would you be ok to try to explain it (if possible)?

    I don’t think you are weird. I don’t know the taste of cock but if you really love your partner, it’s not weird to also love this part of them. And if it’s a kink, enjoy your kink. Everyone has a weird side to them, you are right to embrace it and enjoy it. More power to you!


  • The mouth is a really useful tool to handle the nervous system. Puting things in your mouth is a way to stimulate et redirect its attention and help you get more relaxed. There is chew jewelry made for autistic and other flavors of neuro spicy kids and adults. Be aware that only chewing gum has been scientifically demonstrated to be a useful thing to reduce anxiety and help focus. The rest is anecdotal evidence (doesn’t mean it don’t work).


  • If anyone need a willing participants for your practice, DM me 🤣

    Joking aside, I’m curious about were the pleasure from giving come from. It seems like a painful experience, maybe make you gag and want to vomit.

    It looks hot in videos, but I would be scared to hurt my partner. I feel like no amount of oral sex, sitting on my face, would be equivalent and give reciprocity to the tough experience that it is.

    Can some “throater” share their experience?













  • Good one with pictures and AI! I haven’t thought of that at all.

    You might be right, but it would be hard to publish a book with this concept and not create at least a small controversy. But that may be the point of Art in a way? Shake things up and create dialog? But it would almost seems tame compared to what is happening in the real world IDK 😐



  • Is it like everyone turned white or every non white person has disappeared? The first one is the most “fun” to imagine, as in the other case, we lost a lot of people and that’s very sad…

    You can imagine people of color experiencing strong body disphoria at first.

    Maybe grouping by ex color vs always white, and people pretending to be from one group or the other since their will be no way to discern.

    Maybe language, accents and dialect can be used to try to flag people (for those who cares of course).

    Maybe hair color would be another way to discriminate people, before eyes color. Height? Tattoo? We would always find ways unfortunately…

    Other impact might be mass migration as white skin is not adapted to sunny weather. Lots of sunburn…

    Cults created around this event (the Whitening), some see it as good, other as a tragedy. Whatever happened was unexplainable and baffles scientist around the world. Maybe a belief that another wave of color change will happen in the future.

    Support group for people who lost their color.

    The immense celebrity of the first new baby of color that will be born, maybe making color a very precious attributes.

    You could write so many scenario in this world, but it would be pretty heavy handed as literature 😅