Add to that the idea that revolutions are inherently violent and killing of some traitors is fine

This is objectively true. Tell me one big societal change that is achieved without violence?

two bad guys can fight each other and do so all the time

Democrats and Republicans, i.e. Libs and MAGAts

absolutely not on the dictators stealing everything

Most of the time those “dictators” are dirt poor themselves (see maduro or gadaffi). I dont know where you got this assertion from.

That btw is also why “socialism” never worked

Socialism absolutely worked and it was 100% destroyed by USA most of the time.