• unemployedclaquer@sopuli.xyz
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    20 days ago

    I’m pro transit but someone hornyposting to the world is NOT an invitation to a real world interaction. Thinking otherwise is called parasocial. You’re interacting directly with someone who doesn’t know you exist.

    • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      20 days ago

      I presume it goes: hornypost > flirtatious comment exchange > DM > train ride

      Also, I don’t think it’s meant to be taken seriously.

      Although if you (generic persons, not specifically targeted at the person i’m replying to) see me hornyposting and somehow live within visiting distance, feel free to hmu. I’m in an open relationship and generally down to try new things 😝

        • SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          20 days ago

          Well obviously 😅

          For one - it’s a meme and not meant to be serious.

          But also the point is that assuming that someone does or doesn’t want something like this is flawed. Which is why you don’t assume, you ask. You express a little bit of interest and see if the other person engages/escalates.