• captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      Technically true. Fun and interesting are what most people are attracted to regardless of gender. People also are particularly prone to developing attraction to people they feel good being around.

      Kindness is however a prerequisite for a large portion of women (and an absolute no go for plenty of other women, because people). The ones who want kindness are much better partners

      • beejboytyson@lemmy.world
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        100 percent disagree. The number one thing that women consider in a long term partner is financial stability. People confuse “kind to me” as kind. The shittiest rich people have the most partners. People are attracted to power and success. The stories come along after.

        • angrystego@lemmy.world
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          Some people are. It’s also a question of what the man wants - a lot of shitty short term partners, or one (or a small number) of hight quality long term partners. The latter is better achieved by being kind to the partner.

    • Nalivai@lemmy.world
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      By telling you to trust virgin men instead of women on matters of what said women think, said virgin men fried your understanding of the world forever.

    • Snowclone@lemmy.world
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      oh here we go. with the nice guys. yeah, be an aggro butthole, lay out the insults, they LOVE IT! buddy. you’ve been sold the garbage and you’re eating it.