Would you rather: date someone who you like but who doesn't initially like you back, or date someone who likes you whom you don't initially like back?

JayJLeas@lemmy.world · 28 days ago

Would you rather: date someone who you like but who doesn't initially like you back, or date someone who likes you whom you don't initially like back?

jtrek@startrek.website · 28 days ago

Trying to date someone who’s not interested in me sounds miserable.

Dating someone that I’m not into sounds cruel to them. Unless it’s clearly a, like, casual or otherwise non-invested situation, and they’re aware, but that also sounds hazardous.