• fizzle@quokk.au
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      3 months ago

      IMO this isn’t a special case. Most smokers don’t want to be smokers, they are unable to stop. It’s fine that you find smoking unattractive, but telling everyone just makes you a bit of a jerk IMO.

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        3 months ago

        Its wild to me verbalizing turn-ons and turn-offs is considered rude nowadays.

        It used to be considered prudent and realistic.

        Not wasting my time or their time is polite.