• fizzle@quokk.au
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    2 months ago

    IMO this isn’t a special case. Most smokers don’t want to be smokers, they are unable to stop. It’s fine that you find smoking unattractive, but telling everyone just makes you a bit of a jerk IMO.

    • Velypso@sh.itjust.works
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      2 months ago

      Its wild to me verbalizing turn-ons and turn-offs is considered rude nowadays.

      It used to be considered prudent and realistic.

      Not wasting my time or their time is polite.