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Cake day: May 14th, 2024

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  • Or maybe one day you cross a line you weren’t even aware of. At that point, the cruelty you’re inflicting suddenly hits you like a freight train. You begin to hate your actions and yourself.

    The thing is, you need to be alone to realise these things. In a crowd, the peer pressure will silence such thoughts.

    Just leave these boys to hunt and mutilate animals all alone and without a phone. Being surrounded by silence instead of cheers suddenly opens your mind. Boys can think for themselves as long as there’s no social way to outsource your thinking to the hive mind.











  • What I thought mattered at the time: Opinions of other people
    What actually mattered: My own opinions

    People expected me to borrow money, buy a house, get married, travel the world etc. I didn’t actually want to do any of those. Well, eventually I did screw up, got stuck in that situation for years, but now I’m finally free again. Phew. 😌

    If I could send a message back in time to a 20 year old me it would be this:
    You may not be entirely sure about what you do want, but you certainly know what you don’t want. Let the latter guide you. When people expect you to do something you don’t want, don’t do it. Peer pressure in this context is just annoying noise, nothing more. You shouldn’t make life-altering things unless you’re really sure about it. It isn’t enough that everyone else has done it and expects you to follow suit. Contrary to many cultural norms, the people around you don’t actually always know what’s good for you.