Reading what is wrong and then reading what is also wrong in the parentheses was confusing.
Women aren’t insanely more obsessed with sex and boobs. That should be a given since people are diverse and I can think of several reasons why a woman would be or not be interested in either. I would scratch that.
People should be able to wear clothing without feeling oogled and getting harassed. All genders can get harassed when they should not be.
The system is held up by companies that want to sell you things, you even mention capitalists later on but blame the whole beauty industry on women.
I would not bring up biology, women can be trans or cis just like men can be, even nonbinary. Just not a good point.
These points stood out to me since they were your early ones and I thought I was about to read a misogynistic rant. Toxic masculinity really does a number on the genders across the spectrum.
I am calm and not upset (as ironic as it is to say: I can disagree without big emotions involved). I am not lecturing you, just providing you with actual experiences that are different from yours since I am a bi cis woman familiar with toxic masculinity (the lies you were told). I think you assumed a lot here but I did not mean to come off as upset, angry, lecturing a small child, etc. I would appreciate if you also read my words in a more neutral head space. While we may talk about our relationships when we hang out, we do not obsess over sex like you said and do talk about other things. It’s disheartening that you have reduced women and ‘girls night’ to penises, sex, and exes. These are my actual opinions and life experiences but if you think it’s all regurgitated social media that fatigues you then maybe you should listen more to us instead of shutting us out is all I’m saying at this point. You mention being gender fluid so maybe you could hang out in more feminist spaces, there’s some on lemmy even and the trans spaces have been very welcoming. We’re all just trying to be more kind in this cruel world.