I find it so offensive to see people I know saying things online that they should not even be discussing in a public in-person setting.

You can’t unknow who are bigots, and what they think about the things you hold sacred.

I’m not from the US, but I am interested to know if Benjamin Franklin falls on this category? What is his crime?

I somewhat envy you. My family does not want even to use the non-selfhosted ones: icloud, onedrive, etc.

I handle problems like photo storage when they need it, but don’t want the preventive measures for data loss, storage space, etc :(