• curiousaur@reddthat.com
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    8 days ago

    Food is my love language, but I feel like my family takes it for granted lately. They just expect these gourmet meals each night and it’s not special to them.

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      7 days ago

      I’ve been there. Recommend matching your effort level to whatever level of enthusiasm they’re at. Whatever you do, don’t put in so much effort that you start to resent them.

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        7 days ago

        I don’t resent them, honestly I cook like I do because it’s also just what I want to eat and saves a ton of money. It’s just clear they are spoiled by it, but I suppose I grew up spoiled in exactly the same way.