• hakase@lemmy.zip
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      9 days ago

      Right? Seems like “gf who’s not insecure about her body” and “bf who loves her body” would just be a straight upgrade to the situation.

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      8 days ago

      At some extreme it gets to feel kind of objectifying too, like you’re a source of validation and anything about you that might conflict with that role even a little is a problem