I’m honestly curious, what exactly is „best type“ about her insecurity in this love?
Right? Seems like “gf who’s not insecure about her body” and “bf who loves her body” would just be a straight upgrade to the situation.
People complement each other, ideally. My shit isn’t entirely fixed by my partner, but it is pretty close.
Meh. Telling her she’s beautiful and her never accepting herself feels sysiphean.
At some extreme it gets to feel kind of objectifying too, like you’re a source of validation and anything about you that might conflict with that role even a little is a problem
I’m a trans girl who doesn’t pass (I blame my short hair mostly), my bf loves me and thinks I’m sexy.