• bluesheep@sh.itjust.works
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      4 days ago

      I’ve never minded showering together with anyone. Tho it is nicer if you have a nice big rain showerhead so you can both enjoy the warm water.

      But I definitely wouldn’t say me showering with someone else ever saved any water, it would either just take almost twice as long as me taking the shower alone or we would end up having sex making the shower take longer than us just having two separate showers

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      4 days ago

      One person is wet and warm, the other person is soapy and cold, then you switch.

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      4 days ago

      It is weird, isn’t it? Everyone I know who did it seemed to enjoy it, but it’s done so rarely that it seems like the amount of enjoyment must have been small enough to not be worth it.

      I’m wondering about the effort in surveying it now, because it really does seem an interesting topic. Why do it? Why not do it? What enjoyment, what level of enjoyment? What pain/unpleasantness/‘not-as-fun’ bits?

      • FavouriteShapes@sh.itjust.works
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        It must be because it makes people come out of the shower feeling unclean, defeating the main purpose of the shower. As good as sex is, being warm and wet and clean is better