• kablez@lemmy.world
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    12 days ago

    I was 15. He was 22. He bought me take away food, alcohol and cigarettes for my company.

    A decade later, he was my bosses boss. And harassed me at work.

    He came from a wealthy family where he was the golden child, people around town know about his tastes but no one has come forward. His family are in denial.

    Some people are just pure evil.

      • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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        12 days ago

        That is not a particularly helpful way to engage with someone explaining what someone put them through.

        If she did it doesnt seem like it would have done much to someone in his position, and may have carried risk for her. She doesnt owe us an explanation of how she handled things, regardless of how she navigated it or how it went.

        In general when someone is explaining how they were harmed its generally not helpful to intergogate whether they handled it “correctly”. Being a victim or being in a position in life where it is easier for you to be a victim rarely leaves you with many good options, or makes it easy to do things the “right” way